Thursday, May 20, 2010

Never deprive someone of hope, it might be all they have..


My mom is a very important person of my life, wenever i am actually confused about any decision of mine, i always think of her and take my decision, she has portrayed herself in such a perfect manner thats its completely impossible to detect a flaw in anything.
She's actually a Doctor by profession, and an awesome mother, she's so self giving and generous that nothing beat her simplicity.
Last night i was just sitting in my drawing room, just lying around, and she was giving professional consultancy to one of the patients and their family members. I wud rather very much say that she's a highly optimistic person, she was discussing about some cancer case wid her patient, and i being a silent spectator to the situation was just thinking how much tough it can be for the family...and even my mum's life....encountering everyday cases of people's illness yet maintaining that glow of optimism on her face, handling everything so sensitively. She always maintains hope for everything, and the one thing which i greatly admire in her is that she never loses hope till the thing is over, i have myself seen numerous instances where i have lost all hope and she's the one who keeps me saying to maintain patience and suddenly after that threshold point everything just turns the way around and by my side.
her favorite quotes are sumwhat like...

"NEVER DEPRIVE SOMEONE OF HOPE, IT MIGHT BE ALL THEY HAVE"

"WORK POSTPONED IS WORK NEVER DONE"

mum i just wanna say whatever i m right now or what i'll be in the next few years, it'll be all coz of you...you and your happiness means a lot to me, you are one of the people in my life for whose 1 smile i can die a 1000 times.
I know i'll be not be even 10% of what you are in my whole lifetime, but you have made my life so worthwhile just by being in it. These are somethings which i never said to you in my lifetime, but i love you alott.....just be smiling always....

To all those who are reading this post right now, always give some time everyday to your mom, she's the one who created you, and she's the one who's always so concerned about your 1 smile, joy, sorrow. Pay your tribute to her by some li'l gestures like occasionally giving her a surprise gift like just giving her a pair of earrings.....She'll remember that her whole life.....

To all the gals reading this....just after few years you be at her position, and these selfless emotions will come to u automatically...and one day you'll understand the beauty of it.....

MAKE HER SMILE...THIS VERY MOMENT...THIS VERY DAY......EVERYTHING IN YOUR LIFE WILL START MAKING SENSE.......

A VERY GUD MORNING TO ALL OF YOU....:)

Its Pressure only that turns stone into diamonds

It really has been a tiring day since morning....all busy wid the wrk. i have been that kind of person all through my life that i can't tolerate being not occupied. Either i should have sum wrk to keep my mind busy or i should be busy just hanging out wid my frenzz.
well on a more deep thought, i believe that each sec when u hav not done anythng is an opportunity wasted which u cud hav. Most of us each and every day always crib about our work we do, the compromises we have to make wid our life, about the ppl around us, but we just fail to realize that its only these people which makes our life complete and worthwhile in every way.
I have seen many people cribbing about the wrk pressures they have, but they just don't understand this very thought that its pressure only which turn the stones into diamonds, and its just the transformation of stones to diamonds which is painful, end result is worth waiting and bearing the pain.
i wud really suggest that every person everyday should spend sum time alone everyday....it brings so much mental peace and moreover gives u time to think what u actually you want out of life and gives time to make a mental picture of your goals and your dreamz and aspirations.
Before making any decision always think about what you want and desire and do always compare them wid ur dreamz.
SOMETIMES THE THINGS DON'T TURN UP AS WE EXPECTED....BUT LATER WE REALIZE ITS EVEN BETTER....
LIFE IS NEVER EASY...ACCEPT THE FACT....IT WAS JUST MEANT TO BE LIKE THAT.....
wenever u think things are not going your way....just give it sum time and end result will be wid you....and always remember....ITS ALWAYS PRESSURE ONLY THAT TURNS STONE INTO DIAMONDS...
have a happy evening[:)]



Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Getting started

well this is my first blog of my life.....so lets get started...i dunn know how this activity will turn up.....but i guess i m the ready for this...
this can be the whole new world for me....let me start wid a brief introduction about me

I m Neha Shikha(my frenzz hav many nick names for me).....not really a technical person...but for a formal introduction i have done B.tech in Electronics and Communication from Jaypee University of Engineering and Technology(JUET).....now i m wrking wid a major Telecomm Giant" Nokia Siemens Networks"...

wid my new posting u'll get to know me and the people around me in a better way....nd maybe we can connect nd share thots....
really looking forward to this...so i wud appriciate if u keep your views posted about my postings....

have a happy day ahead......soon will be back wid my next posting....